- Their words are weaponized and used to scam, harm, diminish and control!
- ‘MANAGING DOWN’ putting more of the puzzle pieces together to understand this abuse! The Narcissist uses a distorted form of conditioning or manipulation making you believe you are OK and then you are not OK, and they use this just like you are a Yo-Yo to keep you off balance with all of the ups and downs – BUT always making you go to a lower level feeling blameworthy and worthless!
- When people are made to feel helpless, hopeless, isolated, and silenced – they become VULNERABLE. One of the most obvious signs of malignant narcissism is the way they ALWAYS malign and diminish others.
- The Narcissist completely steers the direction by always reinforcing their technique with equal parts of love/charm and pain/harm creating a desperation that keeps the victim caught up in this overcompensating to get back to that cohesive and loving part of the relationship they once knew!
- The Narcissist is an EXTREME egomaniac and feels so ENTITLED and deserving of everything in life – this is the totality of their infliction and what makes them a Narcissist because nothing else matters in their world except for their every need – AND they seriously do not care who they HARM in the process.
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