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- Their words are weaponized and used to scam, harm, diminish and control!
- ‘MANAGING DOWN’ putting more of the puzzle pieces together to understand this abuse! The Narcissist uses a distorted form of conditioning or manipulation making you believe you are OK and then you are not OK, and they use this just like you are a Yo-Yo to keep you off balance with all of the ups and downs – BUT always making you go to a lower level feeling blameworthy and worthless!
- When people are made to feel helpless, hopeless, isolated, and silenced – they become VULNERABLE. One of the most obvious signs of malignant narcissism is the way they ALWAYS malign and diminish others.
- The Narcissist completely steers the direction by always reinforcing their technique with equal parts of love/charm and pain/harm creating a desperation that keeps the victim caught up in this overcompensating to get back to that cohesive and loving part of the relationship they once knew!
- The Narcissist is an EXTREME egomaniac and feels so ENTITLED and deserving of everything in life – this is the totality of their infliction and what makes them a Narcissist because nothing else matters in their world except for their every need – AND they seriously do not care who they HARM in the process.
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AMEN..IT IS UP TO US..TO SEE IT..AND STOP IT..AND HEAL..WITH SELF LOVE, FOR ONCE..AMEN..I PRAY FOR ALL WHO BEEN DAMAGED BY OTHER HUMANS..AND..PRAY WE HEAL..WE DO NOT LET ANOTHER INFECT A WOUND..WE CLEANED THE WOUND..HEALED IT..AND KNOW NOT TO EXPECT ONE LIKE WE SPEAKING-OF..TO EVER CHANGE..TO KNOW IT IS NOT US..WE GOT STOP BEING DOOR MATS WITH EMOTIONS..I AM HEALING..HAD TO CLEAN MY LIFE OF WOUNDS..I GET LONELY..SOME..BUT..NOT ENUF TO RISK A ANOTHER..ATTRACTION OF SAME..I HAD TO CHANGE WHAT I ATTRACT…AMEN..PRAYERS FOR ALL OF US HEALING..
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No truer words have ever been spoken. The recovery process is a long one though. And at times I will get sucked back into that ” vacuum ” of the narcissistic world of lies. After almost a year away from that toxic waste I am “getting it”, and am healing with the help of people like you. I can now tell much easier for sure when I’m being used again. The great part is that they don’t know that I know !
That level of denial which I held for about 45 years is finally being eroded. ” I was blind but now I can see “. And now I’m able to avoid walking into the same walls again. Once you can ” see” how you have been used you can decide to not allow it anymore. Something that is very hard to do when in denial. God Bless You and all those who have chosen to share and help others.
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