AMEN..IT IS UP TO US..TO SEE IT..AND STOP IT..AND HEAL..WITH SELF LOVE, FOR ONCE..AMEN..I PRAY FOR ALL WHO BEEN DAMAGED BY OTHER HUMANS..AND..PRAY WE HEAL..WE DO NOT LET ANOTHER INFECT A WOUND..WE CLEANED THE WOUND..HEALED IT..AND KNOW NOT TO EXPECT ONE LIKE WE SPEAKING-OF..TO EVER CHANGE..TO KNOW IT IS NOT US..WE GOT STOP BEING DOOR MATS WITH EMOTIONS..I AM HEALING..HAD TO CLEAN MY LIFE OF WOUNDS..I GET LONELY..SOME..BUT..NOT ENUF TO RISK A ANOTHER..ATTRACTION OF SAME..I HAD TO CHANGE WHAT I ATTRACT…AMEN..PRAYERS FOR ALL OF US HEALING..
No truer words have ever been spoken. The recovery process is a long one though. And at times I will get sucked back into that ” vacuum ” of the narcissistic world of lies. After almost a year away from that toxic waste I am “getting it”, and am healing with the help of people like you. I can now tell much easier for sure when I’m being used again. The great part is that they don’t know that I know !
That level of denial which I held for about 45 years is finally being eroded. ” I was blind but now I can see “. And now I’m able to avoid walking into the same walls again. Once you can ” see” how you have been used you can decide to not allow it anymore. Something that is very hard to do when in denial. God Bless You and all those who have chosen to share and help others.
After Narcissistic Abuse 
AMEN..IT IS UP TO US..TO SEE IT..AND STOP IT..AND HEAL..WITH SELF LOVE, FOR ONCE..AMEN..I PRAY FOR ALL WHO BEEN DAMAGED BY OTHER HUMANS..AND..PRAY WE HEAL..WE DO NOT LET ANOTHER INFECT A WOUND..WE CLEANED THE WOUND..HEALED IT..AND KNOW NOT TO EXPECT ONE LIKE WE SPEAKING-OF..TO EVER CHANGE..TO KNOW IT IS NOT US..WE GOT STOP BEING DOOR MATS WITH EMOTIONS..I AM HEALING..HAD TO CLEAN MY LIFE OF WOUNDS..I GET LONELY..SOME..BUT..NOT ENUF TO RISK A ANOTHER..ATTRACTION OF SAME..I HAD TO CHANGE WHAT I ATTRACT…AMEN..PRAYERS FOR ALL OF US HEALING..
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No truer words have ever been spoken. The recovery process is a long one though. And at times I will get sucked back into that ” vacuum ” of the narcissistic world of lies. After almost a year away from that toxic waste I am “getting it”, and am healing with the help of people like you. I can now tell much easier for sure when I’m being used again. The great part is that they don’t know that I know !
That level of denial which I held for about 45 years is finally being eroded. ” I was blind but now I can see “. And now I’m able to avoid walking into the same walls again. Once you can ” see” how you have been used you can decide to not allow it anymore. Something that is very hard to do when in denial. God Bless You and all those who have chosen to share and help others.
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