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- Communication with a Narcissist is just dangerous because they abide by no rules or laws and the ONLY standards in their world are DOUBLE standards.
- Devaluation and the BIG discard – what is next? What do we do? How do we figure this out? How do we get closure? Where do we start? WHAT DO WE DO? A little insight into starting AND understanding our journey to recovery.
- Narcissists will simply bait you with their conversations to constantly manage you down in an effort to keep you confused and off balance. Communication is their tool to manipulate and deceive people and life. Let’s understand this and put a real perspective on the Narcissist’s ‘SPIN’ that they put on everything!
- MIND GAMES: That CONSTANT circle of chaos and confusion that kept us controlled and lost under so many levels of disparity WISHING we could return to what we BELIEVED was a real relationship with them.
- You were constantly in this circle of chaos and always wondering – did I, could I, should I, if I and it is ALL YOUR fault, YOU have issues, YOU are the source of every problem – it is always YOU that is to BLAME. A relationship and love does not involve bargaining parts of your life away to meet anybody’s needs!
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This is a very true statement. Everyone else saw it, why didn’t I
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Sometimes we can imagine what it is that someone else has been through but narcissist abuse is impossible to comprehend unless you have experienced it, hence other people’s reactions and the treatment of some therapist can compound the agony. People need to be educated about this condition as it is more widespread than people think and should be taught along self- esteem lessons in schools so that young people can recognise what abuse is and that it is not ok to be lied to, humiliated, manipulated, cheated on, physically hurt or threatened. More emphysis should be placed on health relationships like we now do with food. Love does not hurt, if the relationship makes you feel bad then it is bad.
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oh so true, and when it does happen to them, they come crying to you.
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I am so tired of defending myself against all his lies ! I want to die literally die! Iam shamed,humiliated,and have so many issues I don’t know if I survive the effects of forty years of narcissisist abuse!!! Please reply
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indeed
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