Supply to a Narcissist is like a fix to a drug addict – they MUST have it – and we are their drug of choice!

A short EXTRA: Supply to a Narcissist is like a fix to a drug addict – they MUST have it – and we are their drug of choice! Think about the distorted behavior of a drug addict. They will lie, steal, cheat, and manipulate to get their next fix AND they are always searching for it. They most certainly know what they are doing is wrong, but they don’t care, because THEY NEED THAT NEW FIX. This ‘not caring’ has been going on so long that every time they find themselves in a moral conundrum, it gets easier and easier to justify their behavior. All they concern themselves with is getting their next hit or fix, regardless of the consequences to anyone else. The Narcissist in an amazingly similar fashion does the same thing AND all the Narcissist concerns themselves with is obtaining their much-needed supply and this outweighs all other considerations because they lack all empathy and have no internal mechanisms that tells them to stop – it is all about their external needs!

From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist.

The emotionally unavailable behavior of a Narcissists quite clearly points to the fact that this is a relationship that is totally one-sided. The façade to cover up the Narcissist’s delusional and harmful aspects describes the reality of the destruction and damage they impart onto their targets/victims. They blow hot and cold in their relationships, they’re self-centered, they have an entitlement mentality, and they don’t take responsibility for any of their actions AT ALL. They have a difficulty forming attachment bonds with others and tend to have huge emotional walls built because of their disorder that doesn’t allow any real bonding to occur. They can’t even form a real bond with their biological children and can dump them just as easy as anybody else! The Narcissist will fight you tooth and nail to escape from being exposed even if this means destroying your integrity and leaving a family behind. Greg   

Posted on October 7, 2022, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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