So what goes on in the omnipotent Narcissists distorted version of life? There is no such thing as a POSITIVE value judgment as it concerns any other human being on this planet – people are merely living objects for a Narcissist to use abuse and discard at will.

So what goes on in the omnipotent Narcissists distorted version of life? There is no such thing as a POSITIVE value judgment as it concerns any other human being on this planet – people are merely living objects for a Narcissist to use abuse and discard at will.

From my Book: From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist

It is a very controlled mechanism in their arsenal of abuse. Normal people respect all life but a Narcissist doesn’t deem life as worthy of THEIR respect. So, by treating others as unworthy the Narcissist is acting as if they are beneath reprieve for their actions, and we are totally insignificant, very disposable and infinitely less important than the all-important Narcissist. A narcissist has no more regard for us than a person that steps on and squashes a poor bug that is minding its own business on the ground. Basically and unequivocally we are nothing and the Narcissist is everything in their world and at all cost even if it means total destruction of an individual! You must always remember that the Narcissist has many other relationships going on as well so there is always a source of supply on the side. No one relationship is as real as it seems (or seemed) or has any of the significance we placed on it – especially as it concerned loving them and the Narcissist loving us back!

 The Narcissist is re-enacting the distorted and hateful images that live inside of them because they constantly come to the surface in their world as envy. The Narcissist is the eternal victim in this world and they blame the world for everything so they can live their out-of-control and perverse lifestyle AND justify it. They pathologically compensate for whatever got them to their dark place and make everybody pay for it. They are just so demeaning with their value judgments that live on the surface of that thin skin they wear to hide the dark soul inside of them. Perhaps this is how the Narcissist edits the shameful image of him/herself that they reflect with a contemptuous eye for everybody they meet. They inflict their personal damage onto their targets/victims in a manner to control their pathological hate and envy and that is how they develop those ‘contemptuous’ eyes they view the world with. To me it doesn’t matter what got that Narcissist to where they are, because they are abusers plain and simple and destroy lives. It is not my or anyone else’s responsibility after being psychologically kicked in the head (and purposely) to the point of severe damage to use any justification that abuse was OK. We have all been bullied in life and dealt with hurt but we cognitively grew up to respect people and life.

 So what a Narcissist puts into motion is pathologically treating us like dirt and maligning us behind our backs to control and destroy us. They are predators that are pre-loaded with delusion, psychopathy, and abuse. This seriously puts Narcissists in their own special class with Psychopaths or like a branch from the same Psychopath tree. The class of people who don’t wish you or any other human being any sense of well-being, no matter what or how friendly, caring or loving their façade is. This is the same class of predators as physical, sexual or ANY other kind of abusive predator and Narcissists are just as dangerous. Seriously we MUST internalize Narcissists really are predators and dangerous, but many people just don’t appreciate the true meaning or the reality of Narcissistic abuse basically letting it in one ear and out the other as the saying goes!

 Some simple logic! A narcissist isn’t acting on any normal human premise and all the Narcissist is doing is playing (manipulating) you for the reaction he/she wants to control and abuse you. The truth is irrelevant to a Narcissist because they don’t even know what ‘truth’ is. Truth or lies, it’s all irrelevant to the Narcissist, so whatever works for them and that is usually lies. They are with us for ONE reason only ‘objectification” and we are there to serve them as Narcissistic supply and that is it. Why do they create the huge production with the entire love bombing? To gain our trust first, and then in turn we speak highly of them in the beginning and that reinforces their con job of a life to the masses. We are none the wiser, PLUS they gain access to attack us using our trust and vulnerabilities to drive the psychological abuse straight to our minds to disable us. But don’t forget we were singing their praises at first and they were destroying our integrity behind our backs. So when you start telling the truth more than likely you will hear, “I thought you were in love with him/her the way you were talking how great he/she was”.

So to support this let’s just say it would be more correct to say that there is no such thing as truth to a narcissist, because there is no such thing as truth when you are playing pretend with the world and everybody in it. This is why narcissists and psychopaths beat lie detector tests! Narcissists and psychopaths are known to get so good at manipulating people that, by the time they are teenagers or young adults, they routinely fool and manipulate family, mental healthcare professionals, teachers, law enforcement, judges, social workers OR you name it and they can fool them. Really builds up a strong case as to just how destructive these critters are in our world!

 It isn’t a matter of their intelligence by any means it is a matter of practice and experience – and they have a lifetime of this experience. You CAN’T always trust an institution or organization to filter out the personality disordered Narcissists either because they are just that good at getting behind a job that makes them seem to be goodness personified and they will use this guise to abuse also. The narcissist I knew has been closely associated with these ‘social work’ organizations for a lifetime and that is very discerning to know.

 Narcissists are expert at tearing down whoever is above them on the ladder of success in their careers. That’s what narcissists do, nonstop, all their lives, because that is what is at the core of narcissism. They get very good at it too, because it’s an aspect of their personality disorder, an aspect that is more a benefit to them. In fact, they get so good at climbing over those they throw down that they come out smelling like a rose, because nobody even knows that the Narcissist instigated the talk that destroyed their person of choice. What’s more, is that narcissists have no boundaries about exploiting and tearing down their ‘betters’, because they have no empathy, and no conscience. It is just everyday life to a Narcissist. Greg 

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