The Narcissist’s ‘FAKE-believe’ world – a take off and play on the words/phrase ‘MAKE-believe!’

The Narcissist’s ‘FAKE-believe’ world – a take off and play on the words/phrase ‘MAKE-believe!’

From my book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist.

Narcissists work extremely hard at making themselves believable as it concerns their overt lies and myths about themselves. They arm themselves with a vast array of learned information they have harvested through their observations of other humans. They acquire and then wear, personalize or enhance this information as if it is truly theirs. So what is the goal with all of this? To snag you into his/her Narcissistic lair to make you supply them with the things they need and can’t get because they are a dark and manipulative personality that envies life, love and people.

In the Narcissists grand scheme of things there is never a relationship with any one person as it concerns love, growth, goals, dreams, togetherness AND equal rights where any person will ever have THEIR own identity OR relativity to the Narcissist – EVERYONE IS JUST AN OBJECT. Everything and everyone is just an opportunity for extorting supply. Everyone is a “people object” in their world and our connection is nothing more or nothing less than the next person’s.

AGAIN, there is NO friendship, family connection, care, professional relationship, love or ANY relationship. We are meant to be transformed into objects for them to USE! This is the Narcissists goal and they are the biggest con artists that exist and they mean to extort everything they can from you. They have unlocked the door to your head and they are planning on using that entry to their advantage and we must CLOSE that door and lock it forever. They will move right in manipulate and manage down most everything that is your reality as you KNEW it. A skilled and extreme Narcissist knows just how to reflect your image right back onto you so that you feel like you are almost twins. What’s not to like and trust when you have EVERYTHING in common?

A Narcissist creatively figures out some unique and impressive angle quickly, and one that few people would ever engage in. Basically they are manipulating your emotions. Narcissists can typically manipulate most people because they use lies and that CHARM. They are always ten steps ahead of you, so much so that it is uncanny. They are very QUICK with these unique approaches and “BAM” they have swept you off of your feet and keep you there. What else is there to do but bask in the glow of this unique relationship! You are undeniably intrigued by everything about them. When your relationship sours because the ugly truth rears itself with a Narcissist, you better duck for cover and be ready for a whole lot of damage control.

Narcissists are addicts that are addicted to a drug called “supply” – well more aptly known as Narcissistic supply. Basically, any human being can be supply as defined by the needs of a Narcissist. We are essentially human beings, and function normally, but we are processed by a Narcissist to assimilate into their lives, serve their needs and shore up their false identity. Basically, all humans are objectified – or reduced to objects by the Narcissist to serve a need. So, I have created a new and adjunct term to ‘supply’ and that is we are “people or person objects.”

In the overall design of things, misfortune to others does not matter to the Narcissist when they have objectified a human being to obtain their drug of choice or “supply.” It is solely based on what this person has to offer, or what can be taken from this person, and this must resonate in the Narcissist’s grand scheme of things. The Narcissist is convinced of their uniqueness (omnipotence) and basically we are there to serve their needs – they are delusional in this manner. There are no written laws that the Narcissist will comply with when it comes to how they treat other people.

There are no human rights involved either, basically we are there for their use and they completely exploit everything they can from us – mentally and physically. They feel no remorse in their acts of deviance to secure supply in the least bit. Lies, betrayal, manipulation, etc., are only tools to extract what they need before they move on to the next and the next and the next. They have perfected and honed these tools to work to their utmost advantage to meet their needs in EVERY situation.

With knowledge, education and the support of other victims/targets you will see the complete picture – and it will never make what they did better, but you will understand because you have finally been educated into what they are and what YOU aren’t. You must take care of yourself, both mentally and physically as well. The best thing you can do is first to end the toxic relationship, which is slowly making you sick – both physically and emotionally. Remember too that we cannot ruminate about what they did and what they are because that will become a debilitating and destructive routine in your life. Don’t waste any part of your precious life allowing any part of this Narcissist to reside in your heart, mind or soul. PLEASE stop believing that you can do anything to change this or fix this, or overthinking because you are only revictimizing yourself. However, you can fix yourself and heal from this if you allow yourself to start on this journey! Go no/minimal contact to start on your journey to recovery. Greg

Posted on October 7, 2019, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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