We must totally understand that we are only utilitarian to a Narcissist! We are only “people objects” to a Narcissist. Our role is to serve their every need PERIOD!

We must totally understand that we are only utilitarian to a Narcissist! We are only “people objects” to a Narcissist. Our role is to serve their every need PERIOD!

From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist

Narcissists are addicts that are addicted to a drug called “supply” – well more aptly known as Narcissistic supply. Basically, any human being can be supply as defined by the needs of a Narcissist. We are essentially human beings, and function normally, but we are processed by a Narcissist to assimilate into their lives, serve their needs and shore up their false identity. Basically, all humans are objectified – or reduced to objects by the Narcissist to serve a need. So, I have created a new and adjunct term to ‘supply’ and that is we are “people or person objects.”

There are no human rights involved either, basically we are there for their use and they completely exploit everything they can from us – mentally, emotionally, and physically. They feel no remorse in their acts of deviance to secure supply in the least bit. Lies, betrayal, manipulation, etc., are the tools they use to extract what they need before they move on to the next and the next and the next. They have perfected and honed these tools to work to their utmost advantage to meet their needs in EVERY situation. It is as simple as that to them – but what they offer to trap and manipulate us into this role is subjugation or the action of bringing someone or something under domination or control! They lure their next target in with FAKE emotions, FAKE care, FAKE love, FAKE everything so they can procure what it is they NEED that we have.

In the Narcissists grand scheme of things there is never a relationship with any one person as it concerns love, growth, goals, dreams, togetherness AND equal rights where any person ever has a separate identity OR meaning to the Narcissist – EVERYONE IS JUST AN OBJECT. Everything and everyone is just an opportunity for extorting supply. Everyone is a “people object” in their world and our connection is nothing more or nothing less than the next person’s.

In short we must support and magnify the narcissist, echo and amplify their life, their views, their knowledge, and even their history. Fail to do so and there is a replacement waiting in the wings. They lack EMPATHY so they just don’t care about any consequences as it concerns the destruction they cause through their extreme manipulation to secure supply or “people objects.”

The narcissist is always fanatical, extreme, and very dangerous because of their all-pervasive nature that permeates every aspect of their life. Couple that with their non-existent empathy for life and people and you have a very dangerous predator on the loose. The “people objects” that they manipulate into their pervasive world are always the casualties. At stake is NEVER EVER the preservation of the person the Narcissist uses – but instead the Narcissist’s very own NEEDS and survival.

As with ALL Narcissistic supply (all sources), once the person or people are no longer instrumental – the Narcissist loses all interest in them, devalues them and ignores them. The Narcissist might even wish to destroy the person as a punishment or revenge for incompetence at providing Narcissistic supply. Narcissists switch supply and ideologies with the ease as defined by the manner in which they change partners, spouses and value systems. NO/minimal contact to end this cycle of abuse. We MUST empower ourselves with the truth and discard EVERYTHING Narcissist and put that energy into us. Greg

Posted on August 21, 2019, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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