Those Narcissistic standards.
Those Narcissistic STANDARDS! If it wasn’t for DOUBLE standards – narcissists wouldn’t have ANY standards at all!
From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist
The Narcissist considers him/herself above all of the norms of goodness – it is just a TOOL to use if they want something from somebody – other than that it does NOT exist in their world. They elude or defer away from the fact that any of their action’s borderline being outright cruel/evil toward others. That is the double-edged sword that they attack the world with – conning people into believing they are a saint when in fact they are the complete opposite and lack all morals and integrity as it concerns life and people. The truth is that their lives are all about double standards or what serves them at ANY GIVEN MOMENT. For example, a Narcissist will stand tall and preach about morality as if all cheaters should burn twice in hell, but as he/she is giving their lecture from the pulpit they are also surveying the room to find a little extra supply to have on the side for themselves. But the Narcissist is not a cheater in their mind – they are DESERVING to omit themselves from morality because they are special and above reprise for THEIR actions in life – again all double-standards, and no rules or laws that they abide by.
Narcissists do not see themselves as the pathological and destructive person that lives their entire life like a parasite using and taking advantage of others, objectifying people, maligning people, and then moving on once they have been emotionally/physically drained and damaged the person that was their target. Nor does the Narcissist see how flimsy their thin veneer of lies, and false credentials are – because they just don’t care nor have the ability to. No instead the Narcissist will project their false image and describe themselves as a hero of sorts or even a saint as far as it concerns humanity and their role here on earth! Well this is part of their disordered and damaged self that enables the Narcissist to live in complete denial of the damage they inflict on people’s lives. are no written laws, rules or regulations that a Narcissist will follow.
They are in COMPLETE denial of their false lives! They have absolutely no notion or care as it concerns right and wrong or truth and lies. We are all potential participants that they will try to maneuver into their big scam and con of life – and very disposable to them once they have gotten what they want. We must gain clarity so that we can come out of the illusion they have created and stop believing in anything about them and put our energy back into ourselves to heal and move forward. Knowledge is power and once we get there WE must discard that Narcissist forever and never look back! Greg