What a Narcissist ‘believes in’ is always self-serving – that means that there is no room for any other way of thinking besides what works for THEM, and what serves their many needs.

What a Narcissist ‘believes in’ is always self-serving – that means that there is no room for any other way of thinking besides what works for THEM, and what serves their many needs.

From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with Narcissist

They believe they are omnipotent OR feel they are above all people, entitled, and deserving of everything they want no matter what they do to get it – or the cost to the people they use. There are no human rights involved either, basically we are there for their use and they completely exploit everything they can from us – mentally and physically. They feel no remorse in their acts of deviance to secure supply in the least bit. Lies, betrayal, manipulation, etc., are only tools to extract what they need before they move on to the next and the next and the next. They have perfected and honed these tools to work to their utmost advantage to meet their needs in EVERY situation.

They believe they are NEVER wrong and everyone else is to blame. Hurting and abusing people is never a consideration with them because everything is about THEM and THEIR needs. Whether they lie, cheat, steal, manipulate, smear, destroy, etc., is just a means to an end! It is about power and control over others to get what they want – but never any type of a real relationship – BUT always a manipulative relationship. They abide by NO laws or rules in life!

In the Narcissists grand scheme of things there is never a relationship with any one person as it concerns love, growth, goals, dreams, togetherness AND equal rights where any person ever has a separate identity OR meaning to the Narcissist – EVERYONE IS JUST AN OBJECT. Everything and everyone is just an opportunity for extorting supply. Everyone is a “people object” in their world and our connection is nothing more or nothing less than the next person’s.

Furthermore, they cannot tolerate any sign of independence and autonomy from their supply or “people object”, this only serves to enrage them because they need this complete control to function within their delusional world. The narcissistic supply is there to serve them, so they try to cement their source of supply into the role they have made for them, and there they remain under the narcissist’s control. What that omnipotent and superior Narcissist fails to see is that they are co-dependent on us for their survival – pretty ironic when you think about how superior these creatures seem to believe they are. When in doubt they discredit, lie and destroy anyone to shore up their delusional and fake identity – OR – the big smear campaign to destroy ANOTHER victim.

This is very hard for many people to understand for the simple reason that we are the direct opposite of a Narcissist. We learned about life and love and we have empathy that would prohibit us from even remotely living or conceptualizing an abhorrent and perverse lifestyle where we would purposely use another person, deplete them of their life, and then destroy them. It is not even human to act out in the manner a Narcissist does. Unfortunately they exist and they are dangerous to people and to life in general! NO/minimal contact always. GregWhat a Narcissist ‘believes in’ is always self-serving – that means that there is no room for any other way of thinking besides what works for THEM, and what serves their many needs.

Posted on August 13, 2019, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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