Don’t Fall for ANY of it!
Don’t fall for ANY OF IT!
Let’s see the real picture here and accept the truth of what they APPEAR to be and what they really are – CON ARTISTS, opportunists, and emotionally manipulative ABUSERS that WANT something and will do anything to get it! Don’t fall for any of their manipulative and denigrating tactics – and let’s never forget what they did to us, our families, our friends, our career, and so much more. This abuse is never singular!
From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and everything else in Between with a Narcissist
Narcissists work extremely hard at making themselves believable as it concerns their overt lies and myths about themselves. They arm themselves with a vast array of learned information they have harvested through their observations of other humans so they can morph or fit into any situation. They acquire, and then wear, personalize or enhance this information as if it is truly theirs but it is always based on THEIR needs. So what is the goal with all of this? To snag you into his/her Narcissistic lair to make you supply them with the things they need and can’t get because they are a dark and manipulative personality that envies life, love and people. Don’t fall for it!
They can incessantly talk and talk about most anything without skipping a beat with their interesting information. They are human chameleons that study and imitate the human condition, but with a goal to further their own power by enhancing their stature and influence the people around them to get what they crave, and that is admiration, attention and supply. Undoubtedly, they exaggerate their every claim and position in their life. They are addicted to this omnipotence and we are what they need to use as a mirror to see this amazing reflection of themselves. Unfortunately, what they do in the darkness without a care to the people that love them is also part of the equation with their ability to tell an amazing story to cover up their out-of-control lifestyle or basically lie. Don’t fall for it!
It is ABSOLUTELY amazing how a Narcissist can cover their tracks to hide what can only be described as their perverse and out-of-control lifestyle and world. Remember they are not doing this just to be the amazing actors that they are. These are deceptive and abusive personalities that need this disguise to extort people and life using whatever instrument of abuse they can to achieve their agenda – the best word here is that they are cunning like a fox. Don’t fall for it!
They lie to weasel their way in and out of any situation and come up smelling like a rose. They are pathological liars and controllers in every sense of the word and hide their hideous and perverted life. This is the sad reality of a human connection with them and when you keep that connection alive it turns personally disastrous and destructive as the truth becomes evident that they are not fully functioning human beings and they will take your life down with them. Don’t fall for it – NO/minimal contact! Greg