Nobody is safe when a Narcissist is present!
NOBODY is safe when a Narcissist is present!
From my Book – Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist
Narcissists intentionally take everything they can to an extreme and dark place and are relentless at their controlling situations and people to get everything they want OR ELSE. They use the range of CHARM and HARM to create their supporters and silence their dissenters. It is never about being productive as far as it concerns critical thinking and results – it is purely done to create chaos and to divide and conquer people. This can be within the family dynamic, a work situation, friendships, organizations, or any place where they are present. Many do not even realize the damage a Narcissist is causing because they are stealth with their control.
Narcissists are ALWAYS flying under the radar with many disguises. They are the most CHARMING charmers, and just so nice to people who are in the position to do something for them, or to people who just don’t have any closeness or role in their life to see the reality of who and what they are. They are the direct opposite to those they perceive as a threat and they mean to annihilate and control all that oppose them and will destroy anything to win their delusional battles with life and people.
Narcissists are ever changing chameleons and can instantly change their color to match or fit into any situation that serves them somehow as well as portraying themselves as a saint with so much concern. They lie to weasel their way in and out of any situation and come up smelling like a rose. They are pathological liars and controllers in every sense of the word and hide their hideous and perverted life and their toxic agenda to control all people. This is the sad reality of a human connection with them and when you keep that connection alive it turns personally disastrous and destructive as the truth becomes evident that they are not fully functioning human beings and they will take your life down with them.
Once you get emotionally close to a Narcissist, THEN AND ONLY THEN do you get to see them drop their carefully crafted and charming mask that hides the out-of-control and abusive creature hiding behind it, AND that is after they have TOTALLY fooled you and conned you into their world of chaos. Even those they charm become a casualty because they were only a pawn in one of their needs and games.
Remember knowledge and education are so important to start us on our way to recovering – knowing and diagnosing the illness that has infected our lives and word (the abuse and Narcissist) and take the steps to heal and remove the infection totally from our lives. No/minimal contact is the strongest boundary you can create to protect yourself from this abuse! Greg