Just like everything else as it concerns their life – Narcissists demand special treatment, constant adulation, and all of the attention on THEM.

Just like everything else as it concerns their life – Narcissists demand special treatment, constant adulation, and all of the attention on THEM.

From my Book: Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything else in Between with a Narcissist

Everything MUST be about them and center on them – so you can NEVER have a special moment, or something that celebrates you. They are HIGH maintenance creatures because they need your constant attention, praise, and deference to all of their whims, fancies and needs without a single consideration to ANY of your needs – especially special occasions that celebrate YOU. When the Narcissist sees your eyes light up with anticipation over something that excites you or what you may like, they AGAIN look at it and see it as leverage to use against you. It is just another opportunity to manage you down by making your personal happiness unattainable by responding with constant disapproval. Narcissists do this with every aspect of your needs or wants.

Deprive them of something they want (like constant attention) and look out as they reveal their true destructive nature through raging, destroying, creating chaos, silencing and punishing! They will intentionally desecrate any of YOUR special moments, special occasions, or anything that takes that attention away from them. They will make it wrong, create chaos, and destroy the moment to bring the attention right back to them and steal it away from you. Their world is completely empty and the only way they can fill it up is by stealing our good energy to supplement that pathological neediness and void that they have. Don’t allow them to take any of your positive energy away and shut them out of your world completely. Greg

Posted on July 10, 2019, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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