Narcissists use circular conversations, word salads and basically nonsensical arguments to divert. They cannot validate our individuality and they will even turn a simple harmless statement from us into a chaotic situation and argument.

A ‘colorful’ story – and one of my favorites for perspective concerning any communication with a Narcissist. If you say the sky is blue the Narcissist will somehow negate the possibility of it being blue to make you wrong. The Narcissist may even hint that you have certain psychological issues concerning your thoughts about the sky being blue. The Narcissist will back it up with concerns that your friends, family, or associates have over your “wild allegations” of the sky being BLUE. Then the Narcissist will accuse you of having an affair and using your story of the “blue sky” as a diversion tactic to trick THEM. Finally, that Narcissist will employ punishment and the silent treatment because of your argumentative views, lies and betrayal concerning your “blue sky” story. The Narcissist may even run out to find a little extra supply on the side to betray you since they now have some “free time” after the chaotic and wild “blue sky” story YOU told. After a day or so they come back and tell you that IN FACT the sky is blue as if the issue over the blue sky never even came up at all, and you may even get flowers or dinner, BUT you end up paying for it as usual! OH – and they will tell you that they were taking care of a sick relative and that is why you didn’t hear from them for that day or so that they disappeared. Are they just this delusional or are they just denying us access to them using all of these “crazy and chaotic” diversions that deflect us away from the truth about them so they can get away with everything and anything — YES and YES! Greg

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