We MUST actualize the truth that there is NOTHING real about the Narcissist ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!
It is all about the façade they personally create for us (and everybody else) to DRAG us into a specific agenda/need they have in mind for us. We are not alone in this relationship because they have a network of supply for every aspect of their life! Nobody means any more or any less than the next person that is serving a need for them, regardless if we are their primary or secondary supply source. Once again, we do NOT mean anything to a Narcissist beyond what we supply them with. Think about it and that is why they can move on so quickly – we are easily replaced with the next object without a thought. To a Narcissist it is just filling a position in their life.
They are MANY varied personalities inside of them at any given time, and each and every one of them is a working component of that façade and NONE of them are real. What goes along with this is that we are not real to them either! All the words, all the care or love we offer falls on deaf ears because nobody is there and NEVER will be. No/Minimal contact!
Greg Zaffuto – Author – From Charm to Harm and Everything Else in Between with a Narcissist