Targets Have Integrity
Nearly every post highlights the stark differences between targets and narcissists.
We’ve always possessed integrity.
The narcissist’s always chased after personal gain.
Our good character drew a narcissist to us, because they wanted what we HAVE. They preyed upon our goodness out of envy and possession.
Once possessed by them, we were controlled and separated from all the qualities that make us good. The narcissist as an identity thief, tried to strip us of our goodness, to have it for their own. They set out to strip us of our previous identity and project their lack of integrity onto us. Shaming and blaming us for the things in themselves they can’t come to terms with.
In the end we were tossed aside as invaluable and unworthy in the narcissist’s skewed beliefs.
It is that place of discard, our “bottom”, that we begin to rebuild a solid foundation once again as all good people do. They may have soul raped us, identity thieved us and used us for all the good they could suck from us, but a succubus will always remain just that, and a HOST, goes on, to be who we’ve always been: