Narcissism IS the Elephant In The Living Room

There’a a phrase, “the elephant in the living room”, which purports to describe what it’s like to live with a drug addict, an alcoholic, an abuser.

“Elephant in the room” is an English metaphorical idiom for an obvious truth that is either being ignored or going unaddressed (denied). The idiomatic expression also applies to an obvious problem or risk no one wants to discuss.

It is based on the idea that an elephant in a room would be impossible to overlook; thus, people in the room who pretend the elephant is not there have chosen to avoid dealing with the looming big issue.

People outside such relationships will sometimes ask, “How could you let such a business go on for so many years? Didn’t you see the elephant in the living room?”

It’s so hard for anyone living in a more normal situation to understand the answer that comes closest to the truth; “I’m sorry, but it was there when I moved in.

I didn’t know it was an elephant; I thought it was part of the furniture.” There comes an aha-moment for some folks – the lucky ones – when they suddenly recognize the difference.

A person’s narcissism and abuse IS the elephant in the living room.theres a narcissist in the room

Posted on January 29, 2014, in Narcissism. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.

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